I'mma pray for them

I don't want to be that specific but I do want to get my point across. 

I hate it when certain people try to come down on your relationship and try to make you believe that your relationship is going to go downhill just because they have a shitty relationship themselves. I mean to be honest I feel so bad for them because they are so used to having a shitty heart breaking relationship that they don't know that there are good ones out there so every relationship that they come in contact with they automatically assume the worst. Sorry but not every man out there is like the one you wasted your life on. If anything you should be happy for that fact and want people to find the love and kindness and loyalty in a relationship that unfortunately you couldn't find yourself instead of being bitter about it. All I can do is pray for these people who hate on a good relationship to make themselves feel better about theirs.

I'm sorry but I refuse to let you try and make me feel bad about having a man who loves me and wants nothing but the best for us and our family. He would sooner die than bring pain to our lives. I will not let you make me feel bad for having a loving and caring relationship.  I will not have your negativity around my family and if you want to continue to be negative then we are gonna just have to keep our distance from you and as time passes by and you do the autopsy on my relationship with you you will see that the cause of death came from your own doing. You refused to accept my husband and now this is the consequence. All he does is try his hardest to work his ass off for us and all you do is give him grief. Forget it.  I'm done trying to get you to back off and accept that he's not going anywhere. Because no matter how much I try to show you that he is the best guy for me you are never gonna accept him because you are just looking for reasons to hate him.

You keep saying that i think im living in this perfect world and that I think we have the perfect relationship...well all I have to say to that is that your wrong. Our relationship is far from perfect but we do have a pretty good one. We have a system that works for us and cuts down on arguments and we communicate.  There is nothing wrong with that. We have struggled through every hardship known to man over the past year and we are still going strong because we never abandoned one another, we go through life as a team and that's the way it's supposed to be. There is no division between me and him and that's why we work so well together. What's mine is his and what's his is mine. You are still looking at us as individuals which is why you will never understand where we are coming from. We are one. And we will always be and that's why we work. This is the last bit of energy and explanation I will give to you on this subject.

I will pray for you. I will pray that you accept my family and stop trying to come between us. I will also pray that you too can find your own happiness one day.