Marriage and all that Jazz

It's been like 8 months since me and my husband got married. I'm finally getting used to referring to him as my husband and I'm finally used to my last name. At first it was a bit weird but now it seems natural. He's still my boo boo though. I only refer to him as my husband when I have to explain my relation to him to other people.

My boo boo is a wonderful husband. I love him so much. He is so wonderful. Yeah we argue and bicker but hey that's natural. At least the stuff we argue about is small potatoes compared to what other couples may argue about. The kind of stuff we argue about is like putting the toilet seat up, picking up socks, putting the lid back on the peanut butter lol. You know stuff like that. We never argue about money or cheating / talking to someone that he or I are not supposed to be talking to. Those 2 things (cheating and money) are the 2 key factors that can tear a relationship apart. My boo boo and I have absolutely no secrets and no boundaries. We even have the same bank account. There is no "His" or "mine"....its only OURS! We are completely open to one another. Also, Once the trust is gone there is no relationship no matter how much you try. And to be honest if you have to worry about the one you love talking to someone else or cheating on you then that person don't really love you anyway. And that's the truth...no matter how much you try to deny it.

I feel blessed everyday that God gave me a soul mate to share my life with who loves me for me and will do everything in his power to make me happy. I feel so lucky.

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